Lets Talk about Sex Baby!!!

I strongly believe sex should be great at all times ans well, if your MARRIED SEX SHOULD BE MIND-BLOWING, ORGASMIC, TOE-TINGLING, & LIFE CHANGING!

I AM GOING TO BE STRAIGHT FORWARD AND GIVE YOU MY:

TOP 5 SEX TIPS!

1. BE SPONTANEOUS

No body likes Boring Bobby or Predictable Patty, Spice it up!!

* have sex at an unlikely place.

* have oral in the car (it can be late night if you wanna play it safe)

2. COMMUNICATION

I've had clients that didn't like sex or thought sex is "seriously overrated" 

this is because they are not getting fulfillment from intercourse. They are not being pleased or getting what they want.

From slow it down to pinch my nipple Communication is Key!

BIBLE Clearly States: ASK and it shall be given unto you. Tell your partner what you expect. What do you want and need?

Try I like it better when you _________________________________

I think it would be exciting if we _________________________________

3. TEASE

It is not just Sex. There should be a build-up to the Passion throughout the day. I plant seeds of Passion hours in advance. Gently kisses or Passionate Touches

4. TOYS

And I'm not talking about " rubber duckies" either!! I have had SSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many WOMEN  tell me they don't "believe" in toys, their marriage doesn't "need" toys, toys are "nasty".

Honey Please, I am yet to met a man who was upset over seeing his wife tease with a little toy. There are Thousands of things to bring spice and excitement to the bed room from feathers, and chains, to vibrators and oils.

Don't Be No Fools (as my grandmother would say)

5. GIVE IT ALL YOU'VE GOT!!!!

Failure is not an option YOU will CLIMAX and HE will EXPLODE 

Every time is a new experience, lights, camera, action!

You have the HONOR of PLEASING your Husband or Wife. I consider it a privilege to Kiss those lips & for him to grind these hips!

BIBLE: The race is not given to the swift but the one who endures tot he end.

Take your time Make every moment Special..

I love you, your mate love you, now go have sex!

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We all have to sleep, and If your MARRIED you should ALWAYS be sleeping with your MATE!(unless someone is out of town, that's right no matter how "angry" you should not sleep apart)

 

Now, I Believe HOW YOU SLEEP WITH YOUR PARTNER directly reflects the STRENGTH or WEAKNESS of your Relationship!

 

 **Below I will describe the top 5 sleeping positions of most Couples and how:

 

 Yall's sleeping either shows your on the right track to LIFE LONG BLISS or There is TROUBLE IN PARADISE?

 

 

1.THE KING & QUEEN

 One arm around the other partner: He is a real protector.

(if that hand makes its way to a boob, He's a real proctor and a lil FREAKY too!)

Sometime ya'll are so close with the spooning that you both end up on the SAME pillow!

 

2. IT TAKES 2 TO MAKE A THING GO RIGHT

Start sleeping with your head your partners chest (partner laying on their back of course)

your arm rest across their body showing your passion and trust

if your leg is on or thrown across your partner (& he didn't say its hot move your leg)

shows that he puts your needs above his own.

 

3. SWEETHEART & GENTLE LOVBE BIRDS

 Laying or sleeping facing each other. You usually end holding or touching showing a strong physical connection. You two have great communication and are very comfortable. Facing each other is a classic position to promote conversation.

 

4. STEPPING ON A CRACK

This can be the beginning of the end OR Your sake-Up Call!

 One of you is in the bed WAY before the other.  It is limited to no conversation  

 

 

 

5. THE KISS OF DEATH

Dry silence, no love, affection, or in-fact NO passionate Kissing at all .

looking for an exit or a reason to leave the room

accepting the fact that someone will end up sleeping out of the room.

excuses to  justify: They Snore, They sleep too wild, the baby is sleeping in the bed , argument, work schedule, etc. you fill in the blank.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

( and if it's not you maybe it's your partner or a friend)

Has there ever been a time you were wrong but, flipped the situation to make your partner feel guilty and question what they did? Everyone has "flipped the script" or worse been the victim while you partner slithers by. Being able to avoid apologizing or making my partner feel guilty (when he did nothing wrong) would send me on a natural high! Over the years,  I developed an art of arguing my point and finding an escape rout not to apologize has become second nature!   I'm smiling and deceptively feeling good, walking bold,  while my relationship suffers and the relationship crumbles to a mire mental competition, where  I have to "win" and be on top at all times.  Do you know anyone like this? Are you the "Me Monster" ,who has to be right at all times and  spin most things to get what you want? well, if your that person start the clock!! it is only a matter of time before the success of your relationship Runs OUT!!

When you play these "mind games"  with your partner and in your relationship, you give birth to  disconnect that festers deep and spreads like cancer,  it is only a matter of time before you push your partner away and begin the end of your commitment. You will be left empty and possibly preparing to repeat the cycle with someone new.   This is when eating humble pie comes in.  Eating the pie does not mean you become a chump, or say yes to everything, are weak, or have no back bone. in fact it is quite the opposite, it takes a strong, assured, committed person to eat humble pie. Eating humble pie means you die to self. The needs of your partner become greater than your own.  What does it cost to say, Honey, "I'm sorry" or "I was wrong" It cost nothing but your pride (which comes before a fall). Which is more important your pride, ego, and selfish desires or your family,partner, and covenant baring spouse?

Talk instead of walk away.

Extend the olive branch instead of your selfish desired

share (your thoughts , desires, and feelings) instead of shut down

Care about your spouse  more than your self

Remember your vows and why you feel in-love

Forget the past your short comings and your partners

Play and Pray together (holding hands)

Give more time to your spouse instead of yourself

oh, have lots of SEX!

All of these things are ingredients for delicious humble pie, where the aroma will carry your relationship into a better place with great communication, partnership, and commitment. If your going through a rough patch, a splash of Pray & a pinch of Care can be a great place to start rebuilding your relationship.

* Don't be afraid to be the first to apologize, forgive, or start the conversation. You do not have the spirit of fear, be bold! You were bold in plotting & flipping the script now be bold to make it right.

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Greetings and salutations gentlemen, I go by the name of Mr. Great. I'm a happily married man and I will be writing blogs for Just Listen LLC. on relationship topics from a male perspective.  Real quick fellas I want to give out five "relationship moments" to remember:

Fellas, I know you might look at this list and laugh, but you better believe most of your wives, girlfriends, or lovers remember these moments. If your lady keeps a journal, then I promise you those five moments are written down in her journal. Gentlemen, remembering  these moments  and being able to go, "back down memory lane" will get you out of so many situations, trust me. If you think you will forget those moments then write them down. I promise you that they will come in handy sooner than later. Until next time God bless and feel free to comment.